It almost defies logic but dysfunctional relationship patterns like codependency frequently continue after the drug or alcohol addicted individual becomes sober or “clean.”  It would appear to make sense that sobriety and the recovery from addiction in the household would result in a less chaotic, more functional living situation.  When looked at a little deeper, to the contrary, the codependents may be more sad and depressed than ever because the earlier balance, regardless of how dysfunctional or damaging the addictive or alcoholic behavior was, has been upset.

The drug and alcohol addiction research literature defines codependency as a group of symptoms that often take place in people who live with someone who is an alcoholic and/or a drug addict.

The psychological and physical effects of codependency include dysfunctional relationships, shifting between hyperactivity and lethargy, anxiety, and depression.  Physical issues frequently result from unresolved codependency problems.  These may include:  ulcers, sleep disorders, non-specific rashes and skin problems, high blood pressure, colitis, migraine headaches, gastro-intestinal disturbances, insomnia, and other stress related physical medical conditions.